The relationships we have are very delicate. To make your relationship strong, you should always keep paying attention to it from time to time. But sometimes knowingly or unknowingly, we distance our partner from ourselves by our actions.
So let’s talk about these actions in a little detail that are destroying your relationship:
1) When you do not take your partner’s advice in important decisions of your life.
When you are in a committed relationship, you should include your partner in every decision of your life, whether it is big or small, personal or professional.
For example, suppose you have got a promotion in your job, due to which you have to leave the city and shift somewhere far away. In such a situation, if you decide to shift without consulting your partner, then you are wrong here. This means that you don’t think of them as an important part of your life and don’t consider it necessary to consult with them.
Consulting with your partner doesn’t mean that you have to depend on their decision for your career growth. It’s your career, the choice will definitely be yours. But you should share important things related to your life with your partner. The one who loves you truly will understand your point of view and will support you in your every decision. A relationship goes well with equality.
2) Paying more attention to others than your partner.
When you start giving importance to others more than your partner, then your relationship gradually starts weakening. This happens when you and your partner start losing conversations.
Many times it happens that even if the person in front makes thousands of efforts to maintain their relationship. But we are neither seeing their efforts nor do we are making any efforts from our side.
Then how far this relationship can go?
As I told you that relationships always work well when there is an equal contribution from both sides. The one-sided relationship ends one day or the other. In one-sided relationships, there is less love, and more fights and arguments.
So if your partner really matters to you and you never want to lose him/her in life. So it’s a time to wake up, see their efforts or make some efforts. Try to maintain the relationship from your side too.
Many times it happens that we love a person a lot but when he is with us, we simply do not know his value and we realize his value after losing him.
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3) Making false promises.
The root of any relationship is trust. So always make promises which you can fulfil. Stop making false promises to your partner in a relationship. The root of any relationship is trust. If it breaks, the relationship dies one day or the other.
A relationship is built by promises, commitment and adjustment. So whenever you are in a relationship, before making any commitment, think about whether you will really be able to fulfil this promise or not. One false promise is enough to break your relationship.
4) Not apologizing with a sincere heart.
When we are in a relationship, often some fights and arguments occur. Fights occur in every relationship. But if your relationship really matters to you, learn to apologize from the heart after a fight.
When you don’t feel sorry from the heart, the impression of that one mistake gets splash out somewhere in your mind and the chances of repeating that mistake rise which can make things worse. Therefore, if you want to move forward in the relationship by forgetting everything, then do it with a sincere heart.
So, think about all these actions. If you pay a little attention to these actions, then your relationship will definitely start getting better.
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