Do You love yourself?

Have you ever asked this question to yourself?

How and how much you love yourself reflects how you teach another person to love you.

If you are a person who is always angry with yourself, finds faults in yourself, curses yourself and then you expect that someone should be in your life to love you. You feel bad that nobody loves you.

So tell me one thing, If you are not able to love yourself, then how can you expect that someone else would love you. You cannot teach someone else to love you until you learn to love yourself.

It’s a truth of life that no other person can love you as much as you can.

If you are reading this article right now, then I hope that you are neither too young nor too old to inculcate the habit of self-love in yourself.

Do you want to find out your shortcomings?

Okay, find it.

Let’s do a reality check.

But don’t curse yourself for that. However, try to rectify it and improve yourself. When your focus is only on improving yourself, accepting yourself and on loving yourself, that is the sign of self-love.

Last time, when have you tried something that gave you a lot of happiness and you enjoyed living life.

It can be anything. You may have read a book, play a game, did exercise or done any other interesting work.

Of course, this is life and you don’t need to break any mountain to enjoy your own company. You can start this thing with any simple task like cooking your favourite food or spending a few moments alone in the fresh air on the balcony or doing a workout.

Your love for yourself reflects in the activities you do. Do what truly makes you happy and gives you internal satisfaction.

How many times you have given priority to yourself?

That’s what shows your love for yourself. You have to understand that making yourself a priority is not selfishness.

Giving priority to oneself is a habit that should be present in every human being.  If you have a habit of always thinking about others, and doing good for others and you are not getting anything in return for that, then this is the time to ask yourself that –

What about me?

Yes!  Some people have a weakness that they can never say NO to anyone.

But you have to understand that NO is not a negative word. By saying No sometimes, you can avoid the great pain of life. We are afraid to say no because we want to be in the good books of others or don’t want to hurt others feelings.

What about you and your feelings?

You should always remember one thing that you can’t make everyone happy in this world. There will always be one person in your life who would be unhappy with you. Even if you have put 100% effort from your side to keep him happy.

You have not come into this world to please everyone. Your foremost responsibility is your happiness, your dreams and your destination. So, the sooner you give up the habit of always making another person happy, the better it will be for you.

So from today onwards, learn to say NO to every situation you think is not good for you or in which you are not comfortable.

I am not saying that you should not think about other people’s happiness or should not care about them. Think about them. But your priority should always be you and your happiness. The habit of self-love is not possible in a single day that today you told yourself –

“From today, I will only have to give priority to myself.”

But then after two months, you become the same as you were before.

You have to put yourself first today, tomorrow and always. To keep yourself happy in life, do not leave any chance to satisfy yourself. Don’t wait for another person to come and love you. Always choose yourself. Feel proud to be a unique personality.

THANKS FOR READING THIS ARTICLE.