Growth is a process, not a destination

We often conversate with ourselves that we want to grow in life. I don’t want to be stuck in one place. I want growth. Whenever a little problem comes in the way, we get nervous, we give up and forget the desire of growing in life. First of all, we have to understand this thing that growth is not a destination, it is a process.

Growth is like a ladder on which you can take only one step at a time. If any step is missed, you can also lose balance. Many times the ladder breaks a little while climbing. But that doesn’t mean that you won’t be able to reach the top.

When you start thinking of growth as a process rather than destination, things automatically become easier for you.

Even when you travel, you can never see the finish line of the road from the place where you are. But still, you know how far you are from your destination and how far you have come from where you have started. Growth is the just like that.

Every person indeed wants growth in his life but the path to success is not always is a bed of roses.

Sometimes, there comes a phase in life when you start doubting yourself and feels a lot of mental pain. But at that time, you have to tell yourself only one thing that all this is just a stepping stone which is giving you problems right now but this is ultimately contributing to your success.

For a warrior, there is no victory without war. BUT YOU ARE A WARRIOR.

If your life will go smoothly and there would be no challenges in life.

Then –

• What would be the fun of living such a life?
• How will you learn something?
• How will you move forward in life?
• How will you improve your mental ability and
• How will you become the best version of yourself?

You will never have your special identity. In such a situation, no one will ever care about your existence.

To live life, you should have a hunger to get something. If you want something, get it at any cost. You have come to this world to establish your identity, fulfilling your dreams and for proving yourself.

When we see a successful person, we only see his success, but-

• We don’t know about the sacrifices that he had made to reach that level.
• We don’t realise what had he lost in life to get that success.
• We don’t know about the situations which he had gone through.
• We don’t know how many times he failed.
• We don’t know how many times he have doubted himself and his capability.
• We don’t know how much he had sweated.
• We don’t know how many tears he have shed.

But what we see is his SUCCESS.

When a person overcomes all these things, then no power can stop him from being successful.

There is a very famous quote –

“If you can’t fly, then run; If you can’t run, then walk; If you can’t walk, then crawl; But whatever you do, you have to keep moving forward!”

You have to do the same in your life. troubles will come and go if you have forgotten your dream just because of these problems you can never get back to your dream. So keep moving.

Be unstoppable.

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