We often talk about self love that a person should love himself first. Because the person who cannot love himself, he will never be able to love anyone else and neither will anyone else be able to love him.
But have you ever stopped for a moment and tried to ask yourself some questions:
- What Is this exactly the concept of self love?
- How can you do self love?
- Do you love yourself or not?
But before understanding the concept of self love, keep it in a mind that self love does not mean being selfish.
Self-love simply means when you think about yourself first before thinking about anyone else. You give priority to yourself before giving priority to anyone else. Before saying Yes or No to anyone, firstly think about what your answer will cost you.
Not thinking about others is not self-love. Thinking about yourself before thinking about others is self-love.
One of the most important things I want to say to you is that you always keep telling yourself, I will not be able to do this work, I am good enough for this task and I would create a mess.
Listen, why?
Why you think all this?
- Why you are not good enough?
- Why can’t you trust yourself?
Until you have faith in yourself, you can’t trust this world and you will always be in trust issues, both with yourself and the whole universe.
Yes! Mistakes can happen. While doing any work, there is always a chance of a 1% error. But who doesn’t make mistakes? We even learn from our mistakes.
But what we do?
If another person makes a blunder, we console him that just forgot and take care next time.
On the other hand, if you make any kind of mistake, then you live in regret for a long time. Why did this all happen to me and started doing negative self-talk with yourself?
No, dear.
Don’t be so hard on yourself.
Except for your parents, all the relations of this world are connected to you later at some point or the other. Your first relationship is with yourself. So your priority should also be you.
Think before taking any kind of decision, about what effect it will have on you. The day you will learn to love yourself, no anxiety and tension will cause you anything. Because you will be happy within yourself.
Talking to yourself, asking questions to you and finding answers to these questions. It should be a part of your daily routine.
You have to give yourself ‘me time’ to know yourself more, to love yourself more.
If you are doing all this work then it is a very good thing. But if you are not doing all this for yourself, then promise yourself today that from today onwards, you will be your priority,
You will give yourself ‘me’ time, understand yourself, forgive yourself, love yourself, and not be too hard on yourself.
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