Today in this post, let’s talk about our relationships.
- Why in today’s time we are losing our trust in relationships.
- Why do fights happen?
- Why do we get unhappy in relationships?
There is only one reason for all.
Our expectations.
You know what happens. We keep a different expectation about love from someone and when our hope is not fulfilled. We start getting dissatisfied with our relationship.
Nowadays we have started living in a kind of conditional relationship. Even we have started putting conditions on another person to get a satisfying relationship and when those conditions are not fulfilled by that person. We feel disappointed.
Do you know what you do?
You make a belief that if your partner loves you, then he will react in this way or that way. Keeping that expectation in mind, you start deciding how your relationship is – best or worst.
If a husband gives a nice gift to his wife on an anniversary, then he is a good husband. If he is not able to do the same, then it is considered that he does not love his wife. He is not a good husband.
This is wrong.
There is a possibility that a person may not be able to bring a new gift for you, but that person loves you a lot. He has only one way to express his love. That’s his feelings.
There may be a chance that the person who is giving you gifts on every occasion, maybe he is cheating on you.
If you keep measuring your love based on conditions, then you will never find a true relationship, a true love. There are no conditions in a true relationship. Whether it is of a friend, husband, wife, mother or father.
Accept people as they are.
Do you know what is happening?
In any relationship, we want to change the other person. But before advising others, think about whether you are adopting that advice. It is easy to find the mistakes of others. But we don’t even try to find our own mistakes.
If we want to improve any relationship, then we have to start with ourselves and when we talk about ourselves, it is not only about what we say to another person and what we do with him. It also comes down to what we think of the other person.
Always keep in mind that every person is different. His character is different. His choice is different. Every person has a different way of looking at the world and most importantly different ways of expressing love to make relationships stronger. So don’t focus on things like gifts etc. It doesn’t matter at all.
They give you happiness only for a few moments. The thing that matters in a relationship is the feeling of the other person. The love he has for you and it is for a lifetime that gives you lifelong happiness.
I hope you like this article. Thanks for reading this article.