Fear is an extremely valuable thing. It often keeps you safe and if there is a need to be careful, it also keeps you alert but your fear is preventing you from moving forward ahead. You have to understand that everything you are afraid of does not always harm you.
Tell me one thing, have you ever faced such a situation in your life when you were worried about taking some big decision in your life or were afraid to bring any change or were doubtful to take any risk.
Everyone feels scared. It doesn’t matter that you were scared. The thing that really matters that what you did after getting scared.
Have you been afraid and left everything as it was ?
OR
You have overcome your fear. You took the decision, took the risk and went ahead.
Being scared is a natural thing. Everybody gets scared. It is part of the nature of all of us. We always want to keep ourselves safe and comfortable and want to stay away from where we saw any danger.
Your comfort zone will never make you face the reality of life. It will never teach you how to live life. It will never teach you to fight with the situation.
If life ever gives us a choice, we always choose our comfort zone. That’s a reality.
You have to understand that this is the choice in between your comfort zone and your dreams.
If you choose your comfort zone, you will never be able to achieve your dreams.
If you choose your dreams, then you have to get out of your comfort zone at any cost and have to overcome your fear.
Actually there are two types of people in this world :
- The Realists and
- The Dreamers
What are Realists ?
These people are a bit practical. They act with logic. They always stay careful. They think and plan a lot before taking any big decision. They take any decision after looking at all the pros and cons.
Especially such decisions that can change their life. Whether that decision is regarding :
- Taking admission to any university or
- Related to career or
- Buying a house or car.
Realists think deeply before taking any such decision and they even think after taking a decision. These people do not see how many opportunities they have to grow because they have a lot of faith in Plan A.
This does not mean that realists do not have dreams. They too have many dreams. But they just stick to their plans. They set limits according to their facts and they aim to reach only that limit. They neither think of going out of that line nor they go out of it. They always play safe.
Their expectations are much less than dreamers.
What are Dreamers ?
Now let’s talk about dreamers. Dreamers have big dreams. They are full of passion. They have the courage to change the world because they know they can do it.
Dreamers say that if a problem came their way, it has come only to test their courage and they have a lot of courage. Their dreams have no limits. They want to reach the highest and there are no such words as doubt, fear, limits in their dictionary.
These people fall many times. They get up after falling but they never give up.
Dreamers and Realists both have dreams but both of them have a different ways of fulfilling their dreams. They have the different attitude towards their dreams.
If you want to become something in life and want to achieve your goals, you should have a personality like a dreamer. There is no such thing as a comfort zone in the life of a dreamer. Such people are not afraid to take big decisions in life.
Whether it’s :
- A decision about leaving the university to start a business or
- A decision about moving to a new country or
- A decision to leave a 10-year-old job for following a passion.
They take such decisions because they know whatever they have thought, they can do it. Everything is easy for them.
Which category do you fall in ?
If you have a dreamer attitude. Nothing is impossible for you.
Being realistic or practical in life is not bad. Even planning is not a wrong thing. But keeping yourself in limits is a problem.
If you really want your dreams to fulfilled.
Be a dreamer.
Be limitless.
Go beyond limits.
Be unstoppable.
I hope you have enjoyed reading article and learned an important thing for life.
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